Find Healing Through Self-Compassion
I help christian women see beyond thier husband's porn use so they can love themselves deeper and build a thriving healthy marriage.
Is This you?
You take the baby out of the bedroom so the noise doesn't wake your husband, only to find out later that THAT is when he looked at porn.
You wake up early to make the time to do some personal healing, just to learn later THAT'S when your husband had another slip up.
You see your husband's eyes checking out a girl showing WAY too much skin and you start to wonder what's going through his mind.
You're husband is feeling discouraged and your intuition tells you its because he had a relapse, but you don't want to ask him about it because it might make him feel even worse, which is stupid because YOU are the one who is 'supposed' to be feeling bad!!!!!
AAAARRRRRRGGGGGG!
No wonder you're feeling so stuck!
You're Also Exhausted!
-The overwhelming feeling of disgust when you try not to think about what he does when he is alone with a screen is draining.
-Constantly worrying if your sex was good enough to prevent him from turning to porn
- The mental energy spent on deciphering ALL. THE. LIES. just takes it out of you!
-You are tired of taking your frustration out on your kids even though they had nothing to do with why you are so upset.
-Doing all you can to be pretty enough, sexy enough, funny enough, happy enough just feels like wasted energy when his porn use doesn't change.
There's always more!
-You try to set healthy boundaries, but you either feel terrible about them or don't stay consistent.-You question why you married this man in the first place-You are disgusted with yourself because you can't stop comparing your body to the stupid porn stars
-You feel so alone!
Take a Deeeeeeeeeeeep Breath. ... I've Got you.
There. is. hope.
It is possible...
- To find moments of peace EVERY DAY
-To believe his porn use is NOT OKAY, and love him
-To stop worrying your husband will have a slip up every time he is home alone
- To truly and deeply trust your husband again, even if the porn continues
-It is possible to set boundaries from a place of love
-It is possible to love yourself enough so your husband's porn use no longer makes you feel NOT enough all the time.
-It is possible to enjoy going to the pool with your entire family
-See beyond the porn use and connect with your husband on a deeper level.
All of this is possible for YOU
How it works
- 12 - 60 minute One on one coaching sessions
- The calls are on Zoom so you can be anywhere but driving
- Communicate with me between sessions on Voxer
- Utilize 6 pillars of self-Compassion while:
- Depersonalizeing porn use
- Building self-trust and
- Understanding God's Love
6 pillars of self-compassion
Curiosity
Forgiveness
Grace
Empathy
Trust
Love
What You Get...
- Support to make boundaries from a place of love
- Support while identifiying and letting go of harmfiul beliefs
- A deep love for yourself so you can know what you want and how to get it
- Helpful Journal prompts and/or worksheets to solidify concepts and ask questions
How Much is This Life Transfomration gonna cost?
$1200
before Christmas
Buy before Christmas
Payment options:
Paid in full $797
(Save over $400!)
3 Monthly payments of $300 (Save $300)
After Christmas
Buy after Christmas
Payment options:
Pid in full: $1000 (save $200)OR3 payments of $400
Question!!
When do I start?
Any Time in December or January
After you pay, you will have access to my online scheduler
You've suffered long enough. You deserve peace.
Not quite ready for such a big financial commitment? I've still got you
-I have a simplified 4 week program designed to get your feet wet. Cost: $297.
Here is a breif outline of the calls:
Week 1: "The Stories we tell our selves"
Week 2: Get Curious
Week 3: How self-Compassion can create healing
Week 4: Deep Dive Emotions call
Note: If you choose this option, and later decide to do the full 12 week program, I will credit you $200 to the 'After Christmas' Payment options.