You are in the right place if you want help navigating a loved one's unwanted porn use while also maintaing your religious values.
I also have a suggestion about where to start. I've made a compilation of podcasts, organizations, coaches, therapists, books, and more that will help you stop feeling so alone in your struggle.
Episode 1 tells my story of how I met my husband, what it was like for me when I found out about his porn use, and the beginning of my journey to truly understand that his porn use was not about me.
I havent waited for my husband's behavior to change in order to find joy in my marriage, and, I promise, you don't either.